Choice is yours



Most rather all of us want that all the happenings around us should be controlled by us. I think its human instinct that he always wants to remain in commanding position. To fulfill our desire to command the world we at times become irrational, Forget that others are also as good or bad human beings as we are. They also breath like us, think like us and feel like us. Irrationality in our attitudes lead us to certain wrong doings, we start acting abnormal, unbecoming, indecent. We create ill feelings, our seniors develop disliking for us, our peers start distancing from us, and our subordinates start avoiding us. If such attitude prolongs we become isolated, aloof, detached.

I assure you that is the time when you need a friend, a sympathizer, a sincere pal who could help you discharge your stress, share your grief, pat you on your back and all the more make you understand about your follies. The very reasons which brought you to that point of aloofness, solitude, seclusion.

A friend who discusses your mistakes with you, bearing all the harsh attitude of yours, shows you the right path, becomes a beacon, and finally convinces you that your solitude is result of your own behavior, your own dealing with people surrounding you. My all time favourite poet Allama Muhammad Iqbal said "A person is because of society the way a tide because of river. A person or a drop of water alone is nothing".

Allah has created us and given us the status of His caliph on earth. He has bestowed us with wisdom, a thinking mind, sense of differentiating between right and wrong and to act freely upto some extent. It's all because we are best of His creations. So we should prove it from our actions, our deeds, our living that we are the best.

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Whenever your day gets interrupted by an unexpected annoyance due to someone like you, you have a choice to make. You can let it poison your whole attitude, or you can actually use it to make you more positive and powerful. Those who chose the second option are the people who win, win the day, win the love and win the person who interrupted you.